Find a known sperm donor, or become one
For single women, same-sex couples, and anyone building a family outside the clinic route. Free to join, free to message, and free to stay that way.
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Nothing here is on a timer. You can look around for weeks before you write to anyone.
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Say what you are looking for and what kind of arrangement you are open to. That last part is what people misjudge about each other most often, and being clear saves everyone months.
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Browse people near you. Every profile is visible without paying, and any message you receive can always be read.
Talk, then decide
Write to each other here first. What happens after that, and how carefully, is yours to work out together.
The part worth reading first
Whether a donor stays a donor in the eyes of the law depends on your state, and often on whether a physician was involved.
It takes about two minutes.
You can look around before you write to anyone, and nobody sees that you were there.
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Built by a family that needed it
We are two brothers whose own family came about through a private donation. We are not an agency. More about us →
Messages you receive are always readable
Most sites in this field let strangers write to you and then charge you to open it. We think that is a bad way to make money, so we do not do it.
Looking for a donor stays free
Women and couples never pay here, for anything. Not for search, not for messaging, not later. If we ever charge, it will be for something that does not exist yet.
We tell you what we do not do
We are not a clinic and not a sperm bank. We do not verify anyone, screen health, or give medical or legal advice. What you can go on is behaviour you can see: reply rate, last active, member since.
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